Comfort in Times of Trouble

© 2015 Carmen Waterman - The Healer of PentaclesToday I begin again. Turning to my cards during this time of grief is like calling upon a long and trusted friend. For today I went in search of a guide that I knew I needed and The Healer of Pentacles is the perfect companion to help in times when you are hurting or in need of solace.

Some of you may know that 15 days ago I lost my mother to cancer. She was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer the beginning of December. This after fighting to get her health back from a previous heart attack and breast cancer was just more than she could endure.

As a child my mother was the Healer of Pentacles. She looked after family and home and made sure that everything in our physical world was comforting and safe. Connected to the earth she loved to build garden beds that brightened up our little home. I remember so fondly the smell of bread rising, cinnamon buns baking, delicious perogies, and so many home-made soups and meals that always had a way of filling more than just our stomachs. Life wasn’t easy then and she did everything to make sure that I and my other 4 siblings felt loved and nurtured in the best way that she could. I got my love for Christmas from her as it was a time that she went all out and turned our home into a magical experience of fun and family.

The Healer of Pentacles cares deeply about the health and welfare of those they are connected to. They make sure that everyone else’s needs are met first before they worry about themselves. Providing support, shelter and nourishment is at the base of this guides focus. When you are hurting or feeling lost these simple comforts help to ease the ache, grief and emptiness that sits heavy in your heart.

The Healer of Pentacles will seek to provide a warm, welcoming and secure environment where all feel welcome and equal. She nurtures the body and emphasizes the importance of caring for hearth, home and family. She is willing to take the time it takes to make sure that everything is in place and will encourage others to take the time they need to heal.

All of us will suffer loss at different times during our life such as; the loss of a loved one, loss of health, the loss of a job, a relationship, belief or a dream. The gift of the Healer of Pentacles is the knowledge that self-care and connecting with others is important. Reaching out and accepting the help you need is essential and there are people that will want to be there for you. Often we feel the need to withdraw and hide our pain, and the Healer of Pentacles is a reminder that you deserve to be nurtured, that you are loved and also to be kind and gentle with yourself.

I dedicate this beautiful card and healer to My Mom in heaven who is now an angel watching over us and to all the people who fill this role and make this world a better place.

Thanks Mom!!

12 Responses

  1. Jane
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    This is a beautiful tribute. Your mom was a wonderful person, doing the best she could in difficult times. I bet she’s really proud of you.

    Lots of love, me.

    • Rainbow Travellers
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      Jane I can’t begin to tell you how much this means to me, I’m so glad I had the chance to let her know how much I loved her. I really do hope she is proud of me, there are many things I now realize are precious to me because of memories that she helped to create.

  2. Antonio
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    I am sorry to hear about your loss. Many blessings,

    • Rainbow Travellers
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      Antonio, thank you for always dropping by and for your kind words and blessings.

  3. Sharon Brown
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    Bless you, dear Carmen! It sounds like the Healer of Pentacles is like the spirit of your mother being as close to you as she can during this time of grief and trying to find the healing that ones so desperately needs for such a loss. May you find peace and comfort from this storm of life — may you soon reconnect with your beautiful rainbow 🙂

    Love,
    Sharon

    • Rainbow Travellers
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      Sharon, your thoughts bring tears of comfort to my heart. It is so hard to express the emotions that can at times be so overwhelming. She left behind a husband who is truly lost and I hope that he can find ease from the terrible grief he is feeling, what everyone is feeling. Thank you for your caring support.

  4. Chloe (@ChloeTarot)
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    So sorry for your loss, Carmen. Your mom sounds like a wonderful woman. I’m glad she helped you feel loved, and has inspired you. Beautiful old picture, too! Blessings in life, Chloë

    • Rainbow Travellers
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      Thanks so much Chloe, dedicating my Healer of Pentacles to her was my way of sharing with the world a little bit about her.

  5. Christiane
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    So sorry for your loss, Carmen. This is a lovely tribute and dedication, which I hope will help you on your healing journey. Loosing a parent in adult life can be more difficult than people first expect, but trust that you will sense your mom’s spiritual presence, especially in times you need it most for comfort. Sending lots of healing vibes your way. (((())))

    • Rainbow Travellers
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      Hi Chrisiane, thank you so much for your kind and caring support. It means so much to me and you are right there are times I feel her presence and it is comforting and healing. Blessing dearheart!

  6. Lesley Kiss
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    So sorry to hear about your mom Carmen. Leaves a big hole……..but the memories help. Lost my mom a few years back & still get tears when I pass her photo on the hallway wall. Hugs xoxo

    • Rainbow Travellers
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      Thanks Lesley, it is true our memories and the love we will always feel helps. Sending lots of ((huggs)) your way too.

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